hmmm... the first time i ever met an american was in a clan war... |-NS-|. i was in [MS] at the time and we were all noobs, we didnt even know how to volley for a start. i fucked up so many passes and i couldnt even score, i said i sucked. after the match (we lost duh) bags emailed me saying that i was actually pretty good. that was really nice and i started going onto american servers and shit. point is (ok i AM shit

) that MOST americans are nice, in fact, the first american i met was nice. you have to just talk to them there and then, not in a forum like this, say in IRC.
insane, dont listen to fuckers in a server. they dont know what the hell they are doing and are probably noobs themselves. dont take anything said in a public euro server regarding cussing directed at you seriously. it just makes matters worse yanno? ignore the fuckshoes ((c) froste

) and if they are bothering you, ignore them or leave. thats what i do. dont go saying anything back, if they dont get a response, they wont have anything else to say.
i idle a lot in pgp, participated in baller games and pugs as they are now known. some of them know me pretty well and we get along fine. we just have to make a start. you dont need to go moving servers, just a few need to start interacting with them.
FireCell, me, Pele, Requiem, NaB, Pele, ReLiK and a few others, started playing games with NA (in the early hours of the morning

) one on euro server and one on american server. what a great game that was. it was a shame that people said 'we scored more away goals so we win kthx' and 'we scored more on home goals so we win' etc
bottom line is
DONT BASH THEM BEFORE YOU KNOW THEM.
dont generalise a community by the ignorant fuckheads there are.
insane should certainly not be bothered about this type of thing.
just my two cents